Release Your Guilt About Universal Shoulds
August 30, 2021 at 9:32 am 22 comments
Channeled by Brenda Hoffman for Life Tapestry Creations.com
“Everyone Now of Earth Is an Earth Angel” is the title of last week’s “Brenda’s Blog” – her weekly channeled blog for Life Tapestry Creations.com.
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Dear Ones,
Many of you have mistaken our words. Believing you have to be different instead of looking within to determine how and why you are different.
Acting silly because it’s fun is different than being silly because you feel you must. Again, shoulds from your society or the Universes are not your path. Shoulds are no more.
Even though you have heard that last statement over and over, most of you applied it to your social milieu. Shoulds also apply to concepts many tout as Universal truths, including meditation, foods, and other forms of connecting with the Universes.
You do not require lessons or shoulds to connect with the Universes. In truth, you never did. But because your 3D fear society was so burdensome, many attempted to lighten that burden with techniques that could connect you to your higher self or the Universes. In fact, techniques that were likely valuable when you initiated your transition.
Those techniques are no longer valid. Just as Ouija boards were once popular, but are no more for the information obtained from Ouija boards is limited and burdensome.
The veils have lifted for you.
What feels comfortable? That is your only guide.
If someone tells you that you must do this to connect to the spiritual realms or yourself, please review that information within your being. If it feels exciting to do so, that is part of your new path. But if it does not, realize that such actions might be perfect for the person suggesting them, but not you. You are a unique being and no longer fit within spiritual activities designed for all.
If a friend or significant other pushes you to try this or that, you might feel guilty for not doing so or wishing to do so. Stop the guilt.
Again, if that spiritual action is appropriate for you, you will complete that action or at least complete as much as feels right. You are no longer part of the group process that was once 3D.
Many connecting with the spiritual realms tout this or that cure – an action that might work wonderfully for them, but not necessarily for you. Listen to your heart, your inner being before taking the time and perhaps financial resources to explore those options.
There is nothing wrong with providing spiritual guidance. The difficulty is when you return to the 3D belief that someone is more wise or skilled than you. Those skills you admire might be important for your role – or not. Or skills you can obtain without their input. Maybe those skills are unnecessary flim-flam. Or skills necessary for your next step forward. Only you know – not your friends or family.
So do not feel the need to jump from this program to that or, more importantly, feel guilty that you do not. Perhaps those techniques will hinder your personal evolution – or not. Only you know. And the part of you that knows is within.
You no longer need to ask the Universes or humans if they think you need to do something. They are not you and never will be. You are you – with the most appropriate guidance within.
Perhaps you feel a need to pray to the Universes, humans, or others to assist you in a forward movement. That is far different than waiting until they approve for you to do so – forcing you to take this step or meditate in this way – before you are allowed to actualize your dream.
You are the CEO of you. Others can provide information and input, but you and only you make the final decision regarding the correct application of any information from humans, the Universes, or others.
You are you – not to be divided, reported, or directed by anyone but you. Allow that to be. And allow yourself to extinguish any guilt others might apply to encourage you to read this or do that if you wish to be a true earth angel. So be it. Amen.
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Finn | August 30, 2021 at 10:09 am
” Shoulds also apply to concepts many tout as Universal truths, including meditation ”
Yes indeed; I grew up with a mother who was a pioneer in meditation, (she was a sort of crazy lady of her time), and I thus became allergic to the whole darn thing. – Much later on; I very well know that meditation is absolutely not a must; but a confirmation like the above is always very nice to receive. – Thanks again Brenda, much continued support and love to you and to Everyone, stay safe now.
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 30, 2021 at 12:23 pm
Dear Finn,
Yes, the shoulds are over and done with.
I’ve never been able to meditate, as is true for my mentor. But I’ve always appreciated those who could or did. “To each his or her own.” Freedom to be is where it’s at!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
PS Your Mom was definitely a pioneer. Way to go, Finn’s Mom, lighting the path for all of us.
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Ana Daksina | August 30, 2021 at 10:49 am
Brenda, I cannot describe to you the lift I get just seeing a post of yours coming up in the queue. Bless you, and bless your work.
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 30, 2021 at 12:24 pm
Hi Ana,
Thank you!!! And most definitely blessings to you and yours!
Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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Ana Daksina | August 30, 2021 at 1:56 pm
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 30, 2021 at 12:25 pm
As always, thank you so much for sharing my channel with your MENSAGENS e PENSAMENTOS readers. mensagensepensamentosblog.wordpress.com
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elizabethsadhu | August 30, 2021 at 11:33 am
Thank you dearest Brenda!
FINALLY I’m the CEO of something. Hahaha 😜😜🥸🥸💜💜💜💜💜
And my dear mentor always said: “don’t should on me!” Now my hubby and I have taken it and run with it. He will ask me, “are you shoulding on yourself?” 😉😉🌻🌻💜💜 Needless to say this helps remind me to STOP DOING SO MUCH.
Right before this I read another blog post that is along the same lines. I love the synchronicities!
https://johnpavlovitz.com/2021/08/25/how-to-know-if-you-have-the-wrong-religion/
Love you tons and tons, Brenda!!!
Loving us all!
#cultivatesilly is one of my little mantras.
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 30, 2021 at 12:32 pm
Dear Sweetie,
A pox on shoulds wherever you find them!!!!
How wonderful Jim is helping you (and himself) notice the shoulds that are so much a part of our former 3D being. They seem to pop up at the most unexpected moments for many. No shoulds. Just the freedom to be while of the earth – finally!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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elizabethsadhu | August 30, 2021 at 12:42 pm
I feel very blessed. 💜💜🌻🌻🌻
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Michael | August 30, 2021 at 7:25 pm
Thank you once more Brenda, and You of the U’s. This to me seems the best advice a human can get. My opinion is that your Job#1 is to be you. Every growth you seek is directly tied to you. So. Your words, and most uncommon sense is very welcome in these weekly sessions.
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 31, 2021 at 4:59 pm
Dear Michael,
You said it! “Every growth you seek is directly tied to you.”
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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pleiadian144 | August 30, 2021 at 8:54 pm
Thank you, Brenda! Right on target, again!!! 🙂
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 31, 2021 at 4:59 pm
Dear Pleiadian144,
Great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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caron_claire@videotron.ca | August 30, 2021 at 9:20 pm
The message is clear! Thank you Brenda! So appreciated!
Claire
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 31, 2021 at 5:01 pm
Dear Claire,
And you’re so welcome.
Loud and clear seems to be coming from my sources and so many others. We’re the CEOs, change agents, and sparklers of us.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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angelesdecrystal | August 30, 2021 at 10:25 pm
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 31, 2021 at 5:02 pm
As always, Angelesdecrystal, thank you so much for sharing my channel with your MENSAJES GALACTICOS readers. mensajesgalacticos.wordpress.com
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Sharon | August 31, 2021 at 7:43 am
Yes! Brilliant! Thanks Brenda
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LifeTapestryCreations | August 31, 2021 at 5:04 pm
Dear Sharon,
YES! And so we evolve.
Blessings, Lots of Love and Ongoing Creation Sparkles,
Brenda
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